July 25, 2020
Frankly EVERYTHING we decide ends in consequences.
Below stated is my own consciousness - that may vary from person to person.
You can - when you are forced to decide on something only oversee a part of the consequences - because when someone forces you - you are not in a state of calmness. When one is not in a quiet state of consciousness - then sorry - most will be lost. Either we are angry or sad - angry is the worst state: then we only hear what we want to hear - we only see what we want to see and we decide in Anger - BAD decision.
When we are sad - we are numb and all is grey - and therefore all is somehow negative - we seem apathic and life is passing by - we decide - only that the decision is done - some even have decisions made by others…
These were two - there are more - all decisions whose mother is FEAR - will be going (sorry again) down the drain somehow…
Because it is like cause and effect: Anger will be attracting anger - sadness - sadness - deception - etc. - you see - what my own life taught me.
OOPS - forgot: (that may help, too)…
WE need to change OUR perception therein.
How to become CALM?
Years ago i would have NEVER answered with: Meditation - but today i do!
BEST IS meditation!
When you are calm - you can play with all of it - you can jump in the middle and get stressed out or you stay outside looking in - the point is: HOW to - and it means:
UNDER- OVER- and INNERSTAND - :) (not from me - but from my spiritual friends) - they are right - only then you see a decision and its consequences from all sides - and very important, too: DO THAT EVERY TIME - do not forget it. Yet when one meditates - s/he will do that automatically - that is a great benefit of meditation - in addition - when you learn to connect heart and mind - you will expect miracles - no, i am not kidding - then you can REALLY influence your decisions. I did - i wanted a new job - and i got one - in less than a week - it was a real miracle!
Then generations and consequences… Oh yes, my kids do not see some or do not want to know the consequences - they only think till they reach the display of their mobile phones - sorry, dear Kids - should you ever read this…
But it is the truth.
They become forgetful and when the consequence arrives, they go like: OH…
Yep - OOPS…
That is why i only use my cell phone when it is necessary. I cannot speak of other grown-ups but i see daily that all are sitting in the public transport with their masks and their cell phones and all are quietly typing in it or watching movies and/or etc.
Means - we have got a silent war out there - some do not even notice what the world looks like - they live in their displays…