GIVING

Christmas = Giving; mostly presents and many other things to others.

Giving - many are sad that they apparently (only) give and don't receive back.

That was ignition to write this about GIVING

Giving is a heart matter - expecting is a brain matter.

Expecting can destroy a lot very quickly!

This post is the result of reading / hearing about disappointments - not mine - but what i sense, hear, see, and feel. We don't need to be upset of "not receiving back".

Those who do not expect any more maybe have already found out that ALL comes back.

There is only one little difference therein: many times the given things do not even come back from the one we have given to but from others. Therefore GIVE anyway. Maybe you think you lose people who did/do not appreciate your giving but that too is a blessing.

Because you win/won others who appreciate even a word and/or a being here for them when they need/ed it/you, badly. THAT is most precious giving. 

You can give money/things till you think you are empty of it - but love, which actually costs you nothing is far more precious than any coin/diamond from this planet. Besides: all the material on this planet is NOT ours, anyway.

It is the Planet’s own - Mother Earth's – and, in addition we cannot take it along on our last journey; so why being upset in the first place?

It will not change anything, only our mood could be down and maybe, instead of spreading joy and happiness we might pull down others too, as a consequence therein. And all this just because we have not received anything in return?

Maybe it is time to understand that we actually and only give away something to someone else -

a transfer of things which do not (even) belong to us...  

Yet if you choose to give away from your bottom of your heart you will sense a significant difference; you then give away with love. Then you give truly.